You need to be the girl who is actually brave enough to walk away from the things that don't bring happiness into your life. That means having to walk away from situations that don't make you happy. That means having to walk away from people who don't make you happy.
You need to be the girl who is able to summon all of the strength within you to just cancel everything that brings toxicity and negative energy into your life.
Be the girl who is strong enough to let go of the guy who she thinks she's in love with even though he never really allows her to feel comfortable to be her true and genuine self. Be the girl who walks away from the man who is always criticizing her for the way that she acts, thinks, or talks. Be the girl who walks away from the man who makes her feel so bad all of the time just because she has flaws and imperfections – like everyone else in the world.
Be the girl who is strong enough to walk away from that one friend who can never seem to be happy for all of the success and achievements that you have garnered in life. Walk away from that friend who is always just so envious and jealous of you; the one who is constantly trying to bring you down because they are too insecure about their own sad and mediocre lives. Walk away from that friend who finds too much pleasure in the misfortune and failures of other people.
Be the girl who walks away from the people who are only there for you whenever they need you. These are the friends who act like they genuinely care about you. But the truth is that they only ever really care about what you can offer them. These are the friends who act like they are concerned for your well-being. But they're only ever really concerned about what you can do for them. Walk away from the people who are insincere, dishonest, fake, untrustworthy, and plastic. You don't have the time or energy for those kinds of people.
Be the kind of girl who walks away from anyone who is going to stand in the way as you try to go in pursuit of your dreams. Be the girl who walks away from someone who is holding you back and keeping you from finding happiness. Be the girl who walks away from the people who don't believe in you; the people who doubt your potential and your capacity to be something great in this world.
Be the girl who is not afraid of walking away from people who are clearly undeserving of the time and attention that you might give them. Walk away from anyone who tries to project their own personal fears and insecurities on you; the people who are incapable of confronting their own demons in their own lives and so they resort to demonizing you instead.
Be brave and courageous enough to walk away from the people who don't really treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. You are a strong and independent woman who is deserving of the respect of all those around you. Be brave enough to cut ties with the people who pose threats to your dignity. You should never have to shed even an ounce of sweat for these kinds of people. Be brave enough to walk away from people who don't know what it means to be appreciative or grateful for everything that you do for them. Be brave to just let go of anyone who might ever take you for granted.
Be the woman who knows that not all relationships are meant to last and that there are certain relationships that are better to be left behind in the past. This is especially true for the relationships that bring only senseless pain and suffering.
Be the kind of girl who isn't afraid of speaking your truth even when it happens to be an inconvenience to other people. You have to be courageous enough to say what you really think or feel. You shouldn't have to beat around the bush or be deceitful just so you can protect the feelings of those who are listening to you. The people who matter would always be appreciative of your honesty. And it's those who don't matter who would be upset over your honesty.
At the end of the day, you are only human. And you only have so much of yourself to give. That's why you should only ever give it to the people who are worthy of your love, trust, respect, energy, and time. Only ever keep the people in your life who are actually worth keeping.
Relationship Rules - April 10, 2019